How We Met

Micaela and I met in college. She was a year ahead of me in school but since we both played sports and had a lot of mutual friends, ours paths crossed frequently. Although we were more acquaintances in college we remained connected after we both graduated. We saw each other at random get togethers and weddings. I remember feeling that there was always “something” about Micaela but neither of us ever acted on it. It wasn’t until Micaela was interviewing for residency in Denver, where I was living at the time, that our timing was finally right. We’ve been together ever since!

Even though I wanted to date her in college, I’m so glad it never happened, because we both were able to become confident and independent on our own, which now makes our relationship so much stronger.

Timing is a ✨magical✨ thing! What’s YOUR love story?! I’d love to hear! If you feel inclined share below!

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    Samantha Kwiatkowski
    October 23, 2018 at 6:59 am

    Awh! So excited to learn more about you lovely ladies through your blog!

    xo Sam

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    October 24, 2018 at 12:05 pm

    Hi Raffinee,

    I’ve been following your family on Instagram for a little while. I would love more details on how you two asked each other out, how you decided to marry and the conversation about having children. I’m intrigued by details. ❤️

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      October 24, 2018 at 2:44 pm

      Oh this would be a fun thing to write about 🙂 Thanks for asking and I will def post more about this soon!

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    November 8, 2018 at 4:27 pm

    Hi Raff! This is such a beautiful/ lovely blog!
    My cousin is currently 15 and is going through this process, and she said she’s known she was gay from around her younger adolescence… and this makes sense to me because you’re born with it, it’s not a choice, but my family doesnt’ get it and im trying to help my cousin by making my family understand… what age did you know? I’m sorry if that’s such a personal question..also any advice to help my cousin?
    Many thanks 🙂

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    January 9, 2019 at 9:06 pm

    I love this blog! I love the one where you talk about how you met. My fiancé and I knew each other since 8th grade. And she knew I had the biggest crush on her. Yet she wasn’t out nor even knew she liked girls but one thing she did know was she liked me. One day we expressed to each other how we felt and after that nothing happened. We stayed friends and went on with our lives. Untill 2013 I had gotten out of a relationship and I wanted to hang with old friends and Myranda was one of them. After that night we hanged out as friends for months until one night were I stayed over and we talked for hours laying in bed and she made the first move to grab my hand and that’s how we slepted all night 🙂 we dated undercover for 5 months and March 1st 2014 was the day I asked her out and that’s the same day she came out to her family! We been together for 5 years and getting married September 21st! I loved how you said time is everything and I know like us we needed that time to get to where we are now! ❤️

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    January 17, 2019 at 12:09 pm

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